He’s Everything You Want But Also The Last Thing You Need

When the man you’re with is everything you want, you’ll overlook all his annoying habits, whims, insecurities, and weaknesses, and only focus on his positive sides.

You’ll ignore all his lies and false promises.

You’ll turn a blind eye to every sign that you’re in a toxic relationship.

You’ll make irrational, wrong choices and decisions.

You’ll give your best to fix your relationship, even if others tell you that he’s just making a fool of you.

When he is everything you want, you’ll let him know it.

You’ll let him know that by the way you treat him – with kindness, compassion, affection, respect, and dignity. You’ll let him know that by the way you look at him – with eyes full with warmth, love, and passion.

When he is everything you want, you’ll put his feelings, opinions, needs, desires, and problems first, and you’ll forget about your own. You’ll forget to take care of your priorities and problems.  You’ll forget to follow your goals and dreams.

You’ll be more interested in making him feel happy and fulfilled than yourself.

When he is everything you want, you’ll believe that you’ve finally found the true love of your life. That he’s your missing half. Your soulmate.

You’ll fight for his happiness at the cost of your own.

You’ll forget about your needs, desires, and priorities so as to take care of his.

You’ll boost his ego at the cost of bringing yourself down and wrecking your confidence.

You’ll constantly tear yourself into pieces in order to keep him whole and complete.

When he is everything you want, you’ll fight for him.

You will care about him too much. You will love him hard and unconditionally.

You’ll be satisfied with the small amount of time you spend with him and the crumbs of love you receive. You’ll be satisfied with less than what you deserve.

When he is everything you need, you will allow him to have control over you.

He’ll let his charm, compliments, sweet words, and great stories deceive you. You’ll think your life is a fairytale because that’s what he wants you to believe.

You’ll turn a blind eye to his lies and lame excuses. You’ll believe his promises and accept his apologies.

You’ll let him involve you in his devious, little mind games and play with your feelings.

But sometimes, the person who is everything you want is the last thing you need.

And when he is the last thing that you need in your life, you feel broken, empty, and lost. You feel hurt and hopeless.

You feel confused because you can’t believe that the person you loved with every part of you and to whom you gave everything you’ve ever had could hurt you in such a way.

You can’t believe that the person you fought with every part of your being has never been into you.

When he is the last thing you need, you’ll think you’re less smart and important than him. you’ll think you’re not good enough for him.

You lose yourself.

 

 

Riley Cooper

Riley Cooper is a professional writer who writes informative and creative articles on topics related to various fields of study. Written with love and enthusiasm, her articles inspire readers to broaden their knowledge of the world, think and get ready to act.

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